I don't kno y alot of guys have an obsession wit big bums & breast, its like if ur chest or ur bum is not a certain size they won't talk 2 u. Guys need 2 understand that by being obsessed ur also lowering girls' self esteem, they may feell they are 2 thin & no guy will won't them. Its a hard knock life, i jus feel bad that some guys think that way....